Thursday, April 16, 2009

think thrice....

dis blog has been inspired by a DON to whom i was telling to think thrice on every aspect of life......

DON started the conversation and asked me how shud we maintain balance in life??? i answered, if u r a joker in a circus, den u can always take a long rod in ur hand n do practice walkin on the rope three hours a day... but if u r a normal human being, den i guess dere is a completely different way out to deal with most of the things....
i think that there are 3 aspects to every thing so every1 shud think thrice to anything dey face... these 3 aspects r - physical aspect, mental aspect and emotional aspect...
those who think physically r the ones who survive only till dey have strong bones.. after dat dey r as good as infants... those who think emotionally r the ones who survive only till oders do good to dem.... after dat dey r like indian govt which can stumble any moment... but those who think mentally n logically r the ones who survives the most.... although in dis illogical world, everythin cant be seen in a logical way but still, those who are mentally strong r the ones who succeed in life..

its all in the mind.. its all about playing mind games... its all about taking life from an intelligent angle....

and to balance one's life, its always best to maximize the mental aspect rather than other two apsects... the more we optimize it, the more balanced we will remain in life.. n dose who think by their heart are the ones who r biased towards self interst... instead of taking an unbiased decision dey tend to hide deir self interest by giving it a common statement - "mere dil ne yeh kaha hai".... while reality remains dat dey act too intelligently by putting deir self interst on top n converting their mental aspect into an emotional aspect...
so in life its better not to be on the extremes of physicality or emotionally but rather be dere mentally......

keep on thinking in every situation with 3 different apsects, but act only to balance ur action........

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

25 is the call for me...

well as i have been tagged by the C.R.(Neha sengupta) of my class who also happens to be my fren, so i had to write dis one... oderwise she wud virtually kill me for not doin dis activity as she loves all d weired things except studies.... vaise bhi kaafi tym ho gaya tag kiye huey, so its high time now... ;););)

well i need to tell 25 things or rather facts about myself.. so widout wasting much lets start wid dem...

1.) I always feared touching a Computer and even failed in computr exams in 7th class in my school.. dat tym i decided dat i wud never have any computer n neither wantewd to even touch one... but kismat dekho, kahan ussmein masters tak kheench ke laayi hai.. but d irony is, still dose feelings exists in my heart.... ;)

2.) i was very golu molu in bachpan n every one used to pull my cheeks as dey were really chubby.. but due to serious jaundice, i lost all my weight...

3.) i was ranked as best student both in school life and college life...

4.) i have done voice-over for few skits professionally.. i lended my voice for different characters and had done recording in proper studios..

5.) i was once into the modelling line n was runner up in a modelling contest at national level.. i even did a ramp show at karol bagh shopping festival.. but due to some personal problems i left the modelling feild n joined computer science honours..

6.) i was a medical aspirant in 11th n 12th class n even dropped an year after skool to fulfill my dreams but juz cudnt succeed n i consider reservation as a major hinderance in my failure..

7.) i generally think from my brain n not from my heart n dats y ppl do consider me stone hearted....

8.) my 1st gf was at the age of 5 who used to stay next to my house.. once we even ran out of our houses widout telling our parents... finally we were caught in a gurudwara eating langar wid sum sikh kids... uske baad bot zyada maara tha mummy ne.. ;)

9.) whenevr i used to travel by train, i used to join my hands after every whistle.. cuz i used to consider it as temple bell n my mother taught me to join hands whenever any temple is nearby....

10.) i have done a certificate course in numerology...

11.) once all my cousins gave name to the imaginary gf n bf to all of us who were sitting dere... we were in total 7 bros n 4 sisters sitting out dere to give names.. n d name given to my imaginary gf was RUBY.. i was only 12 at dat tym....

12.) i once ate a lizard's egg thinking it as a bubble gum.. but thankfully it wasnt poisonous n i hadnt swallowed the lizard inside dat egg...

13.) my idol was one of my father's brother who is not in dis world anymore... he was a doctor by profession but the no of roles he played in his lifetime was sumthing which no1 can ever do...

14.) i have a collection of key-rings and self composed poems..

15.) i always feared Social studies in my school life n even failed in 9th class due to it.. although was given grace due to good performance in other subjects n oder feilds... den one of my teachers mr ajay gupta taught me sst in 10th n i was among the toppers of my skool... he is really a gem of a person...

16.) i travelled with whole of Indian and Sri lankan cricket team in indian airlines while coming from nagpur to delhi.. i even took interview of marvan attapattu at the airport..

17.) when i was 5-6 yr old, i threw my cousin's calculator in the dustbin juz for fun.. but i was generous enuff to tell him dat i have done dat thing.... ;)

18.) i used to fear from security gaurds at my aunt's colony thinking dem to be real police..

19.) i once had a half blind date...

20.) i was once lost during a day picnic to science museum wid skool grup n i was heavily fined for dat.. but ni reality i was roaming wid sum1 else of some other skool... ;)

21.) i used to purchase stalls during diwali mela's n used to put up different kind of games over dere wid my cuzin... since he is no more in dis world, so i dont visit mela's nowadays(not to play the games atleast)...

22.) i once got an award for the best entry in delhi 4 my creativity in collage work. i was being honoured by british high commissionar Sir Rob Young at India Habitat Centre...

23.)i once attended a fashion show at a 5 star hotel at chanakya puri which was meant to be for adults only... but me n my fren managed to get in thru a mast jugaad... n moreover we juz managed to escape from there as by mistake we were found near green room of models... so if we wud have been caught dere, we wud surely have been into trouble............

24.) My political idol has been Atal Behari Vajpayee and i met him once on his bday at his home wid special permission when he was the PM of the country... dere were oder political leaders also present dere at dat time.....

25.) i was the topper in a course at British council and gave a speech at the same podium where greats like Tony Blair delivered his speech in the audi of British council....


after this i would like to tag one of my school fren who is getting ready to enter the fashion industry now - http://swatimatta.blogspot.com