Saturday, March 14, 2009

bolo to "problem".. naa bolo to "problem"...


sumtyms we face such situations in lyf, for which we actually dont have anything to say.. all of u must have heard dis phrase " chit bhi meri, pat bhi meri " i.e. i want both sides of coin whenever u flip it... dats the case goin on wid me dese days, where i m the person not getting any side of the coin... its d opposite one's who are demanding both head n tails n even my coin... i mean dats really dramatic period dat i m goin thru for d past few dayzzz...
we have so many problem n serious issues to think about in lyf - e.g.
1.) recession...
2.) job placement and job security
3.) inflation
4.) politics n elections
5.) indian cricket for both mens n womens
6.) terrorism
7.) pakistan
8.) slumdog millionare(issue here is dat y it won so many oscars)
9.) assignments whether its for home or colg or office
10.) exams(et every stage of lyf)..
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n d list continues till d time u think about problems...
now IF, amid so many HUGE problems n serious issue thinking, i try to bring out sum humors,den wats d harm in dat...
i may be a bit sarcastic..
i may be a bit taunting...
i may be a bit cynical...
i may sound a bit mocking sumtyms..
i may sound a bit non-sensical at times..
BUT
i m never rude..
i m never lethargic..
i m never loutish..
i m never merciless..
i m never pernicious..

its juz dat to make the envt more playful or to put sum life in it , i TRY to comment on those part of our lives which we r afraid of facing... which is actually true but we always try to hide from it... i know dat i have no ryt to do such things, but then if anyone cant accept certain things, den i guess, he/she doesnt deserve to be called fit for being a "Sociallite"... i may be getting harder on my views, but i m never afraid of goin back on my words...
if i comment on sumthin, its always meant to be taken in a lighter way... i m not the one taking revenge from sum1 by saying all those things.. its juz dat i m trying to bring out humor so dat one can enjoy on wat he/she has been thinking so seriously for da past few dayzz....
but the type of feedback dat i have been receiving for the past few days has been really disappoiting... every1 has actually started to take my words negatively... dat has been really sad for me... i never tried to hurt any1.. the only thing which has been my prime motto is to make sure dat lyf goes on in an entertaining way..

but sumtyms wen i tries to keep quite, ppl around me again start questioning my silence.. dey get disturbed by my few words... dey think that by not saying anythin to them means dat i m commenting on them in a different way... they think that now its another way to gain importance or get attention of oders...
i mean its again very sad situation for me when doin the ryt thing brings negative results...

i m not able to decipher as in wat to do n wat not do????
for dis, one of my fren suggested to take care of the thots of oders before i speak... but then how wud i kno wats goin on in oder persons mind!!!! n even if sumthin is goin on in oder person's mind, den i guess i m not questiong his views.. i m juz trying to comment on the lighter part of lyf which every1 thinks is obnoxious...


i mean i m really confused as in wats goin on.. i guess every1 has accepted the monotony of situation around dem.. dey r happy to c n feel only d things dat r visible to dem.... n moreover dey r really fyting out wid demselves wen dey find demselves happy...

but yeah, dis dilemma still continues to haunt me day n nyt dese days ki - " bolo to problem, naa bolo to problem".....

3 comments:

neha said...

cute post! its lyk a child complaining abt his oversensitive friends to his mom...dont be so troubled, it doesnt suit u..as u said, u try to take lyf in a lighter way, so y r u taking dis seriously? koi kuchh bhi bole, tu apne expert comments jaari rakh! cheers, mr. commentator!

Swati Matta said...

bole to: no problem.... jisko problem.. uski nhi sunne ka... :)

Simmi said...

I think this is one place where our thoughts match.. I totally agree wid wat all u hav postd..
But as your other friends hav commentd tak everything lightly, making others too also light n thanx...
Thanx for writing out this post..
I'll tell u afterwrds y i thankd u... :) :)